makes someone happy

 

Make someone happy

 

This will be the topic I was looking for. You know when I want to write in this blog, like I don’t get the certain topic, the topic that not really match. And today I experience again, I got story from my friend’s father. From that, I exactly know and wanna write this topic for you, especially for myself thou.

 

I can say that I can be a better friend for everyone that I wanna be friend with. Let’s say I have a friend, a significant other, a someone that I care so much. When we were little we had so much fun. We laughed, we cheered, we talk too much until the middle of the night, we hangout together, we eat together, even we had so much in common. My childhood was so amazing with her. We explored everything, and then there were times we fight and not talking to each other. We were in messed. I can say we were in fight for less and more a month. Wow that’s bad achievement. But hey we meant to be together, until now. So we compromised. We fix it the problem together, and we became a real bestfriend till now, till whenever.

 

You know why I say a ‘Real’ bestfriend? When we were little we said that we can’t be a really friend if we never experience a fight, because from the fight we have been tested if we can through this so our bond will get stronger than before. And then yeah, life goes on. We have fixed it together. So I think our relationship be different than the past, than our childhood. That day that relationship became stronger and powerful. We learn and grow together, change our mind.

 

I still had a connection with her, we chatting, sometimes we video call in whatsapp. But it so rare. I know from the first we meant to be, but who knows the future, I just doing my best to bulid that relationship again. We are in the different city, we in the different college, we in the different people and situation. I think right now there is something separating us, we so far. I have to know that we have grown up, so we must have our own dreams, we must have something different. We know, and we recognized. “It’s a natural cycle, just like births and deaths, blooms and wilts, encounter and separation, hellos and goodbyes” words by Hanny in The Other Side Of Hate Is Love. I think you must read that book!

But deep down inside my heart, I wanna have still, same relationship with her, but probably not exactly ‘same’ because from some strange reason we can’t be like in the past anymore. And I know too, that she has a same feeling. But maybe there is some reason that she can not explain to me, of course. So I get so much lucky we are still in hometown, in the same territory, territory that watching our childhood memory. I want to see her again, I wanna cheereing her up again, I wanna be someone that make her laugh and happy like we were little. I want to be someone that make her smile again. She had been in messed up, I know her life one years before it’s not okay. It's not really okay. Maybe I don’t know something about what she been through, but you know I still care. I wanna know, maybe I can help her. At least just make her feel relief. Maybe we can talk each other again, we share some experience so we can be satisfised. We take a vlog again and then maybe share some awkward story only both of us can understand. I’m smiling right now, remembering how wonderful our life was. I sure we can make it wonderful again, more wonderful.

 

So if you have a someone that really matter, or you wanna see their smile again. So just give it the try. Make them move and you can go wherever you wanna go, talk about the topic you want to talk about (To me, a childhood stories are pretty good), or just stay in a comfy bed, snuggling on the couch with some pillow on your lap. Just try it. Make yourself a reason that your significant other can be open again, full of joyful, full of hopes, and make the bond between you and your significant other tight again.

 

Thank you for reading!

Xoxo