Have A New Conversation

 

I always excited talking to people, especially a new people and a new conversation. There is the times that I feel not good talking to people but when I got myself thinking about that I think I was wrong. I have to change myself to think more positivity about what happened in my day. I watched youtube everyday and I bumped into video makes my mind open, that is the ted talk video by the way. In that video she was talking about how to make conversation with almost anyone. And that is the good topic to me, in order to make some change about my opinion of feeling bad talking to new people. I did, I watched till the end, and now I realize that she makes me realize about the powerful of conversation.

 

Conversation opens a door. A conversation can make peace, a conversation can make war. Conversation open a whole new perspective. She said that.

 

And then I nodded. I think, If I always see the negative about make a conversation to people I will never be a good person. But if I change my mind, I will know something that I do not know before. I will get insights, experiences, funny story that make me laugh, and make a friend with them. Before I go to college, I still excited talking to people but I can not make the first move, I can not be the one that start that conversation. I want to say I am afraid, but I want to talk, huff I do not know how to explain it. Hope you understand.

 

Go to college, I met a lot of people, people from different background, different language and accent, and culture, mostly different to me. And then I started to understand that I have to push myself talking to people because I always interested in even though sometimes I little bit scare. From the video I always think how? How I can start a new conversation with the person I first met. I realize one thing, if I don’t start today so when I will go and have nicely conversation and be friend with them. I know it's not easy like in that video I was watched. But if I always push my self and try every opportunity to open my mouth and say hello. It’s not scary as it looks by the way. I always be hunt by my thoughts, but I finally fix it. Now I am so easy to talk to people that I want to talk. I can hear their story which is so different from my experienced but I learn from them, I learned how to live in here, the culture, story of their hometown, childhood and much more.

 

Finally I am not who I was anymore, now I be a little bit confident. Start is hard but continue is easy.

 

I beg to you guys if you so afraid of talking to someone new in your enviroment or online I don’t care. But the thing is please don’t look bad or think bad to someone new, maybe you have the experience that make you trauma or scared to have new conversation or even relationship. But I know you must learn form that situation in your past so it makes you stronger again and hard to be open to people. Just believe people in our live people always comes and goes, it’s a natural cycle in life. Every person comes and go there must be a reason. A reason to make you smile again, happy, feeling free, new insights, or maybe to make you feel sad, depressed but it gonna develop yourself. I just want to say that, every person gives us more perspective, more knowledge, and more experience. As long as we believe it we can not be scared again. We learn from our experience. And one of the experience it’s comes from anyone else.

Thank you for your nice attention reading this writes, I hope it will help you guys

Peace

Aysha Malik